Talk with your kids about safe, healthy choices.

  • 3.3 million teens reported
    binge drinking in the past month.

  • 42% of SC high schoolers
    say it's easy to get marijuana.

  • Over 23% of SC
    high schoolers have used vape pens.

  • 84% of drug deaths
    among U.S. teens involved fentanyl.

Try a Question and See Where It Leads

More summer free time means more chances to talk with your kids.

  • What’s something adults think teens care about—but actually no one does?

    Why do you think adults care?

  • What’s something people post on social media that feels totally fake to you?

    How do you feel when you see that?

  • What do you think people your age don’t always understand about pills or vaping?

    How does that make you feel?

  • If your future self could text you right now, what do you think they’d say?

    What would you say to your future self?

  • What would you do if someone you cared about was starting to make risky choices?

    What would you want a friend to do if you were the one making a risky choice?

  • Who’s a celebrity you actually think is super down to earth?

    And who’s a celebrity you think isn’t?

  • Do you know anyone who’s struggled with drugs or alcohol?

    What did you learn from that?

  • Do you ever feel pressure to try something just to fit in?

    What do you do when you feel that way?

  • Have you ever been in a situation where someone offered you a vape, drink, or pill?

    How did/would you feel in that moment?

  • What would be your “red flag” in a friendship?

    What about a “green flag”?

  • What’s a song lyric or movie quote that just gets you right now?

    Why’s that?

  • Which fictional character actually has really good life advice?

    Why’s that?

  • What’s something you wish you could say out loud at school but can’t?

    What do you do instead when you feel that way?

  • Have you seen anything online that made drug use look “cool” or “normal”?

    How did you feel about that?

  • What do people your age think about vaping or using weed?

    How do you feel about it?

  • How do you feel when someone jokes about substance use?

    Why do you feel that way?

  • Do you think most people are honest online?

    Why or why not?

  • What kind of support do you need if something ever feels off or overwhelming?

    How can I be more supportive?

  • What do you think I should know about what it’s like being your age right now?

    Tell me more about that.

  • What would you do differently if no one was watching?

    Why’s that?

  • What’s a trend right now that you just don’t get?

    That’s interesting! Tell me more.

  • What are some things that make it easier—or harder—to say no?

    What can I do to make it easier?

  • What’s one thing you’d teach in school that isn’t being taught now?

    Why do you think that’s important?

  • How can we make it easier to talk about this stuff more often?

    No wrong answers. Let’s work on it together.

  • If your phone could talk, what would it say about how you’re doing lately?

    Why’s that?

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Activities & Resources

As a parent, you are your child’s biggest influence—so it’s important to have frequent, honest conversations about alcohol, tobacco and other drugs. If that sounds scary, try these tools to make it easier.

Conversation Catcher

Talking to your child is as easy as print, cut, and fold with this clever activity. Let fate choose what you talk about next.

Conversations Jar

Fill a jar with these conversation starters—and even add your own—so you always have something to talk about.

Backpack Conversations

Cut out these conversation starters and put one in your child’s backpack or lunch to encourage later talks.

Activity Placemats

Print, place and get them talking. These age-appropriate placemats are designed to make dinner table conversations easy and fun.

Tips for Talking to Your Kids

The Drug Enforcement Administration has developed five tip sheets that parents and other caregivers can use to talk with youth and young adults at different ages. They are based on content from Chapter 4 of the DEA’s publication Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent’s Guide to Substance Use Prevention, which the DEA jointly produced with the U.S. Department of Education.

Kids Will Ask Questions.
Be Prepared to Answer.

You can’t have a meaningful or impactful conversation with your children if you’re not ready with the facts. Use these sources to learn what you need to know to provide honest, accurate information and answer their questions.

Tips to Make Conversations Easier

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